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Marriage at St. Norbert College Parish in Old St. Joseph’s Church

“It is good that your wedding be simple and make what is truly important stand out. Some are more concerned with the exterior details, with the banquet, the photographs, the clothes, the flowers. … These are important for a celebration, but only if they point to the real reason for your joy: the Lord’s blessing on your love.” – Pope Francis (address to engaged couples in Rome, Feb. 14, 2014)

It is a great joy and privilege that you are considering St Norbert College Parish for your special day. Couples are encouraged to contact the parish office a year in advance so that they may begin the period of preparation that the Catholic Church requires for the sacrament of marriage and inquire about the availability of the church. Contact the parish office at 920-403-3010 or

Requirements for Marriage at St. Norbert College Parish
Weddings are celebrated in accordance with the requirements set forth by the Catholic Diocese of Green Bay.

The fee for weddings at Old St. Joseph’s Church is $400. Should you cancel your wedding, there is a $50 non-refundable fee. This fee includes use of the facility for one hour on the night of the rehearsal (scheduled by the parish office); three hours on the day of the wedding (one hour prior, one hour for the ceremony and one hour following for pictures); coordination of the wedding; and use of the Pennings Room and the services of a wedding hostess.

It is customary to offer the presider a stipend at your discretion.  

Couples must choose a Catholic priest or deacon that is in good standing within their diocese to preside at their wedding. We cannot provide a priest or deacon for weddings. All priests and deacons will need to contact the parish office to confirm his willingness to preside at the wedding before the date can be reserved.

Your priest or deacon must submit your marriage file to our parish office one month prior to the wedding.

If you are from out of town, you should complete the marriage paperwork with your local parish. Your parish will submit your marriage file to your local diocese, who will then send it to our diocese for review before it is sent to us. 

We cannot guarantee parking for wedding guests. We do notify campus safety of all weddings. See our campus parking map for a map of parking locations on campus.

It is your responsibility to secure musicians for the wedding ceremony. Music must meet the requirements of the Catholic Diocese of Green Bay. CDs and MP3s are not permitted at any time. For questions regarding music, please contact our music director, Carol Wilda.


  • Wedding decorations must not replace the liturgical decor already in place.
  • Because of the sacramental significance of the altar and baptismal font, no decorations may be placed upon the surface of the altar or font. Additionally, the altar may not be moved from its current location.
  • A table is available for a unity candle. Please bring your own candles, tapers and holders for the candles.
  • Please be mindful of the church as a worship space used before, during and after your wedding and do not move any part of the church environment (altar, chairs, ambo, etc.).
  • The use of tape and tacks is not permitted on any surfaces (walls, floor or furnishings).
  • Runners, wagons, pets, doves, petals, birdseed, rice, bubbles, lanterns, etc., are not permitted.

Photographers are asked to keep a respectful and unobtrusive distance during the ceremony. To honor the sacred nature of the worship space, photographers are not permitted in the loft, near/on the altar, in the main aisle or on chairs or blocking doorways.  

Behavior and Conduct

  • There is no food allowed before, during or after the ceremony in the church, gathering space or Pennings Room.
  • Conduct in the church should reflect the sacramental nature of your wedding day and be appropriately reverent.
  • No smoking, alcohol, foul language or gum chewing.
  • Please have two people designated for cleanup after your wedding. Please dispose of all leftover flowers and empty boxes.
  • Items left in the church will be turned over to the campus safety and put in lost-and-found.
  • It is important to be prompt the day of your wedding. Each wedding is allowed three full hours. If you are running late, you will have less time for pictures after. Many events are scheduled in our church and it is important to be mindful of reservations made by others.
For more information, please contact the parish office at 920-403-3010 or
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